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Is Our Marriage Boring? An Introvert and an Extrovert Answer Honestly
Many more years with the same person. Exciting, or boring? Milan says our marriage has never been boring a single day. Pim says it sometimes is. Pim grew up in a house where family and friends walked in unannounced.…

Is Traditional Education Broken? Why We Homeschool Our Son (AI, Money & Freedom)
We are both products of the traditional school system, but when our eldest son experienced bullying and rigid structures in first grade, we decided to take a completely different path: homeschooling. In this video, we…

Is "Love at First Sight" Real? The Daily Choice That Saves Relationships
What happens after the initial spark fades? In this episode, we talk about why relying on "love at first sight" or temporary chemistry often leads to burnout, and why long-term relationships require an active, daily…
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Small Surprises That Keep Romance Alive
Bored in Your Relationship? Start With You
Bored in Your Marriage? Curiosity Is the Antidote
Don't Let Your Marriage Become Logistics
The 10 Things Date Night That Brought Us Closer
Five Quiet Minutes (She Says Twenty)
"Dance Here in the Kitchen?" Small Moments That Keep Us Close
Germany vs Thailand: Six Weeks' Notice or Just Show Up?
She's Never Cooked the Same Dish Twice
Is Our Marriage Boring? We Gave Different Answers
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She was a Google executive. He was a stay-at-home dad six years her junior. Today we work side by side every day as best friends.

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